Draw Conclusions...mistake ?

     One old man was sitting with his 25 years old son in the train. Train is about to leave the station. All passengers are settling down their seat. As train started young man was filled with lot of joy and curiosity. He was sitting on the window side. He went out one hand and feeling the passing air. He shouted, "Papa see all trees are going behind". Old man smile and admired son feelings. Beside the young man one couple was sitting and listing all the conversion between father and son. They were little awkward the attitude of 25 years old man behaving like a small child.

Suddenly young man again shouted, "Papa see the pond and animals. Clouds are moving with the train".A Couple was watching the young man in embarrassingly. Now it start raining and some of water drops touches the young man's hand. He filled with joy and he closed the eyes. He shouted again," Papa it's raining, water is touching me, see papa".The Couple couldn't help themselves and ask the old man,"Why don't you visit the Doctor and get your son treated".
Old man said," Yes, We were from the hospital. Today only my son got the eyes first time in his life".

Don't draw conclusions until you know all the facts..we all living such a environment that we always thinks about positive approach of life .. but it seems about negative feeling of thoughts of environment...  So conclusion gets difficult always ...as yr problem may not be problem of others..if y judge fr that reason y may get false conclusion..

People mistakenly assume that their thinking is done by their head; it is actually done by the heart which first dictates the conclusion, then commands the head to provide the reasoning that will defend it....

Realisation : “I”, “me” and “self” : what it explain within us ?

Its my self  real realisation of life by the flow of time....

          My real life incident that helped me to understand that one should have tiny and fragile ego. “I”, “me” and “self” will never let relationships progress in one’s life. One thing I have learned that we should not take too long to shed our ego. We should not make delays to ask for an apology as it loses its significance. Each one of us does not possess the art of forgiving. We might lack the strength to forget things and forgive others. It takes a strong person to say sorry, and an ever stronger person to forgive. A simple rule of thumb in life is that if you cannot forgive others then do not expect others to forgive you. We all are human beings and are born to make mistakes. If God can forgive us for our bad deeds why cannot we forgive others?

                I close my eyes And see your Son Standing in glory and honor. I call his name And see his hands Pierced and stained for me.I see the cross And enter in I thank him for all he’s done Because of him, I now can live .To Bless HIS Holy Name .HE’s my dearest friend. Who ??

                                                                       He is non other than  god...

I have read somewhere that " If you cannot understand my silence, you will not understand my words". Really sometimes words are not necessary.

Real beauty : Ego VS Love VS Life...

The  open question to all ...

    who kills ego ? why ego comes to mind ? can love between ego can be vanished ? who is responsible to sacrifice ego or love or life ?

let’s have a well known story...
  Once upon a time there was an island ,  where all the feelings lived together with friends one is love & ego . 

One day there was a storm in the sea and the island was about to get drowned. Every feeling was scared but Love made a boat to escape. Every feeling boarded the boat . Only 1 feeling was left. Love got down to see who it was.. It was EGO.. Love tried and tried but ego wasn't moving also the water was rising. 
Every one asked love to leave him and come in the boat, but love was made to love. 

At last all the feelings escape and Love dies with ego on the island.. Love Dies because of EGO .That ego kills himself only due to his ego. ultimately both have to sacrifice the life..

Ego means a person’s sense of their own value and importance . Principles are important in life not ego , but when they begin to boost ones ego, then they turn into a burden for relationships, love , life..always prepare for  rejection of life... then ego can be vanish in yr mind... Real beauty is in modesty and the absence of ego. Let your heart, passion and spirit guide you not your ego....

Never ending of complex human nature...

Small real fact...

    When we buy a computer, Hard disc is blank but a full circuitry capable of taking all the inputs, commands and responses. Now you install the operating system and various programmes as per your requirements. It depends upon the type of inputs, that will decide the retrieval. Sometimes your inputs are corrupted, causing virtual block in retrieval. If you are not a computer expert, you think it is a complex situation but the expert calls it a VIRUS. Now take Human Nature which is nothing but the receptivity and responsiveness of the human mind. To start with it was given to us as a blank book, but whatever we learnt through the receptivity of mind through inputs decided our responses. The environment in which we grew up, the type of knowledge we received, the type of company we had, everything added to this and went on changing our so called "Human Nature". More the varied exposure, more the complexities.

   

The term complex because it is unpredictable. The moment we come to a conclusion with certain amount of certainty about a person after a period of interaction, a new facet is revealed perplexing us to dive for cover and looking for an answer as to how to deal with the new situation for which we were not prepared in the first place. This is because the unpredictability of the human mind. Human nature could be termed complex or simple or a balance of both. It would all depend upon how you relate to the other and how others relate to you. It would all depend upon his or her personality to a huge extent...

God made our life very very simple. But in the process of grabbing all, we human beings made it very very complex!..its also truth that due to complex nature human loses humanity as well as  moral values..

Never laugh on poor status ...

Never laugh on poor status ... 
     
    One day, a father of a very wealthy family took his son on a trip to the country with the firm purpose of showing his son how poor people live. They spent a couple of days and nights on the farm of what would be considered a very poor family. On their return from their trip, the father asked his son, “How was the trip?”

“It was great, Dad.” “Did you see how poor people live?” the father asked.

“Oh yeah,” said the son.“So, tell me, what did you learn from the trip?” asked the father.
           The son answered, “I saw that we have one dog and they had four. We have a pool that reaches to the middle of our garden, and they have a creek that has no end. We have imported lanterns in our garden, and they have the stars at night. Our patio reaches to the front yard, and they have the whole horizon. We have a small piece of land to live on, and they have fields that go beyond our sight. We have servants who serve us, but they serve others. We buy our food, but they grow theirs. We have walls around our property to protect us; they have friends to protect them.”

The boy’s father was speechless.

Then his son added, “Thanks, Dad, for showing me how poor we are.”

           
Never laugh the status on poor... time has power to change anybody status...Never insult those who are poor or Ugly,They are the reason YOU look rich and good!Do not judge by appearances, a rich heart may be under a poor coat. Real truth of our life, till we are lacking of love from each others so we are remain poor only, how much money we may have..,

No one can tell whether they are richer or poor by turning to their ledger. It is the heart that makes a person rich or poor.......

intention may changed not expectation...

              A crow was sitting on a tree, doing nothing all day. A Rabbit asked him, “Can I also sit like you and do nothing all day long?”The crow answered: “Sure, why not.” So, the rabbit sat on the ground below the crow, and rested. A fox jumped on the rabbit and ate it.

          To be sitting and doing nothing, sitting very high up is only can enjoy the others action . You may continue to exceed on others  expectations but shall always fall short of the boss' expectations, as yr boss is always in top position...

so always works for  yourself not to impress any body intention...intention may changed not expectation....

Aspect of life....

                   A Father was reading a magazine and his little daughter every now and then distracted him. To keep her busy, he tore one page on which was printed the map of the world. He tore it into pieces and asked her to go to her room and put them together to make the map again.

             He was sure she would take the whole day to get it done. But the little one came back within minutes with perfect map……When he asked how she could do it so quickly, she said, “Oh…. Dad, there is a man’s face on the other side of the paper….. I made the face perfect to get the map right." She ran outside to play leaving the father surprised....

There is always the other side to whatever you experience in this world. Whenever we come across a challenge or a puzzling situation, look at the other side…. You will be surprised to see an easy way to tackle the problem...

Rejection in life ...?

            Once, there was this guy, who was in love with a girl. She wasn’t the most beautiful and gorgeous but for him, she was everything. He used to dream about her, about spending the rest of life with her. His friends told him, “why do you dream so much about her, when you don’t even know if she loves you or not? First tell her your feelings, and get to know if she likes you or not”. He felt that was the right way.

The girl knew from the beginning, that this guy loves her. One day when he proposed, she rejected him. His friends thought he would take alcohol, drugs etc and ruin his life. To their surprise, he was not depressed.

When they asked him how was it that he is not sad, he replied, “‘why should I feel bad? I lost one who never loved me and she lost the one who really loved and cared for her.”

    

The question lies on acceptance and rejection..from which love and hate relation comes out ... Love is all about giving to other person without greed of gaining anything in return, if other person rejects it, its him/her who will be losing most important thing in life. So never feel rejected..and   vice versa hate equation lies .. Rejection isn't a sign that something is wrong for you it's a sign that they're wrong for you.

     Pain and death are a part of life. To reject them is to reject life itself.Live your life for you not for anyone else. Don't let the fear of being judged, rejected or disliked stop you from being yourself.

what life expects us...

For complicated world  more we know, and the more we find ourselves in tune with life, the crazier that the world and the people in it actually seem. Even through this, we have to be willing to love. It takes courage and faith to continue to believe in people when they have shown you every reason in the world not to. 

Our lives are not at all about who we are, and what we accomplish on our own, our lives are about who we effect from what we are able to accomplish, and how our world will continue to be forever changed by our accomplishments. 

Our lives will be remembered by how much we were actually able to love. How much we were able to give when we should have really been the one's receiving, how much were you able to sacrifice when you should be the one being lifted up in a sense. Will your love abound more than anything? This will be your main aim and objective of life...

 Sometimes we get angry with people, when we should be angry with ourselves, because we gave them the power to change our mood and feeling ...so make Strength of character which means the ability to overcome  against others, to hide hurt feelings, and to forgive quickly... life is so small and beautiful...

Blessing in the name of god..

Two men were walking along one summer day. Soon it became too hot to go any further and, seeing a large plane tree nearby, they threw themselves on the ground to rest in its shade. Gazing up into the branches one man said to the other,

“What a useless tree this is. It does not have fruit or nuts that we can eat and we cannot even use its wood for anything.”

“Don’t be so ungrateful,” rustled the tree in reply. “I am being extremely useful to you at this very moment, shielding you from the hot sun. And you call me a good-for-nothing!”

Most of the shadows of this life are caused by you standing in your own sunshine. The only thing standing between you and your dream is your belief that it is possible and your willingness to go after it...All of God’s creations have a good purpose. We should never belittle God’s blessings.

Time has own destination..

A Mouse running over his face awakened a Lion from sleep. Rising up angrily, he caught him and was about to kill him. Then the Mouse piteously entreated, saying:

“If you would only spare my life, I would be sure to repay your kindness.” The Lion laughed at him but allowed him go. It happened shortly after this that some hunters, who bound him by strong ropes to the ground, caught the Lion. The Mouse, recognizing his roar, came and gnawed the rope with his teeth, and set him free, exclaiming:

“You ridiculed the idea of my ever being able to help you, never expecting to receive from me any repayment of your favour,  Now you know that it is possible for even a Mouse to confer benefits on a Lion.”

It is possible for even a Mouse to confer benefits on a Lion. Nothing serves as an obstacle to anybody on this earth; it only gives you a new reason to think of new ways on how to solve old and new challenges we face in our journey through life...

Fear vs respect vs humanity....

    Long time ago very cruel king name Virat Singh was ruling the city of Vijay Nagar. All citizens were fearful because of his cruelty.Virat has a dog named Jack, which he used to love more than anything, one fateful morning Jack died. Virat Singh organized last rituals for dog; entire city came to cremation ground. Virat Singh was very happy to see that people love him so much and he felt he is the most popular king in the world. After few days Virat Singh died, but no one came for his funerals.

Respect is something you have to earn, you cannot force it on others to respect you. There is a thin line between Fear and Respect, every one of us should understand it and do necessary corrections in our personalities. Understand that happiness is not based on possessions, power or prestige, but on relationships with people you love and respect. 

       Love is what we are born with. Fear is what we learn. The spiritual journey is the unlearning of fear aacceptance of love back in our hearts and humanity.  Fear and love are the deepest of human emotions... respect  both  not  the over the value of humanity..

Learn sacrifice not selfish...

Sometimes you have to test someone. Not because you don't trust them, but to see how much they'll sacrifice for you. You'll also have to let them go; Not because you suddenly stopped loving them, but to see if they love you enough to come back. Sometimes U Have to  Shower Bad Side Also
So that U Can Sort Out Who Can Accept U Even At Ur Worst Time & Mood...

Every SACRIFICE deserves a fruitful reward. 

Every FAILURE deserves a second chance.

WE just have to be strong to persevere in LIFE.