Once, there was this
guy, who was in love with a girl. She wasn’t the most beautiful and gorgeous
but for him, she was everything. He used to dream about her, about spending the
rest of life with her. His friends told him, “why do you dream so much about her,
when you don’t even know if she loves you or not? First tell her your feelings,
and get to know if she likes you or not”. He
felt that was the right way.
The
girl knew from the beginning, that this guy loves her. One day when he
proposed, she rejected him. His friends thought he would take alcohol, drugs
etc and ruin his life. To their surprise, he was not depressed.
When
they asked him how was it that he is not sad, he replied, “‘why should I feel
bad? I lost one who never loved me and she lost the one who really loved and
cared for her.”
The question lies on acceptance and rejection..from which love and hate relation comes out ... Love is all about giving to other person without greed of gaining anything in return, if other person rejects it, its him/her who will be losing most important thing in life. So never feel rejected..and vice versa hate equation lies .. Rejection isn't a sign that something is wrong for you it's a sign that they're wrong for you.
Pain and death are a part of life. To reject them is to reject life itself.Live your life for you not for anyone else. Don't let the fear of being judged, rejected or disliked stop you from being yourself.
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