can we Define our self in our own way...

We gain strength, courage, and confidence by every experience in which we really stop to look fear in the face. we are able to say to ourself, 'I lived through this horror. I can take the next thing that comes along. Expose ourself to our deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free... The more we like ourself, the less we are like anyone else, which makes us unique.... we have brains in our head. we have feet in our shoes. we can steer ourself in any direction we choose. we're on our own, and we know what we know. And we are the guy who'll decide where to go....
keep faith in yourself....